#8 in popularitySince 2017Menu of 7 methods, gradual to self-soothe
Precious Little Sleep
Alexis Dubief
A practical guide that lets you pick from seven methods, from gentle to cry-it-out.
- Starts
- 2 moProgram from birth
- Results in
- 3 nights–3 weeks
- Crying
- Your choice
- Evidence
- Moderate
Overview
Alexis Dubief's Precious Little Sleep grew out of her popular blog and is known for its plain-spoken humor. Rather than prescribing one method, it starts with fundamentals: a safe, dark room, white noise, an age-appropriate schedule and an early bedtime. Parents then choose from a menu of seven methods, starting with gradual assisted approaches and moving to self-soothe methods if needed. Night feeds and naps are handled as separate problems.
Dubief sees 2 to 4 months as an ideal window for building independent sleep, earlier than many sources, though her methods work at later ages too. She isn't a clinician; the book synthesizes published research.
How it works
- Fix fundamentals: safe dark room, white noise, age-appropriate schedule, early bedtime.
- Start with a gradual 'assisted' method; move to a 'self-soothe' method if needed.
- Handle night feeds and naps as separate problems.
- Stay consistent.
Pros
- Practical and funny
- Lets parents pick their crying tolerance
- Strong on newborn realities
Cons
- Earlier start than many sources recommend
- Author isn't a clinician
- Many options can overwhelm
Evidence
Moderate. Synthesizes published research; not trialed itself.
Details
- Popularity
- #8 of 39 · High (estimated)
- Since
- 2017 (9 years)
- When to start
- Newborn guidance from birth; author's ideal window for independent sleep is 2–4 months; any later age works
- Day structure
- Cue-based routine
- Format
- Book, website, podcast
- Good fit for
- Parents who want options matched to their own crying tolerance, explained without jargon.