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Precious Little Sleep

Alexis Dubief

A practical guide that lets you pick from seven methods, from gentle to cry-it-out.

Starts
2 moProgram from birth
Results in
3 nights–3 weeks
Crying
Your choice
Evidence
Moderate

Overview

Alexis Dubief's Precious Little Sleep grew out of her popular blog and is known for its plain-spoken humor. Rather than prescribing one method, it starts with fundamentals: a safe, dark room, white noise, an age-appropriate schedule and an early bedtime. Parents then choose from a menu of seven methods, starting with gradual assisted approaches and moving to self-soothe methods if needed. Night feeds and naps are handled as separate problems.

Dubief sees 2 to 4 months as an ideal window for building independent sleep, earlier than many sources, though her methods work at later ages too. She isn't a clinician; the book synthesizes published research.

How it works

  1. Fix fundamentals: safe dark room, white noise, age-appropriate schedule, early bedtime.
  2. Start with a gradual 'assisted' method; move to a 'self-soothe' method if needed.
  3. Handle night feeds and naps as separate problems.
  4. Stay consistent.

Pros

  • Practical and funny
  • Lets parents pick their crying tolerance
  • Strong on newborn realities

Cons

  • Earlier start than many sources recommend
  • Author isn't a clinician
  • Many options can overwhelm

Evidence

Moderate. Synthesizes published research; not trialed itself.

Details

Popularity
#8 of 39 · High (estimated)
Since
2017 (9 years)
When to start
Newborn guidance from birth; author's ideal window for independent sleep is 2–4 months; any later age works
Day structure
Cue-based routine
Format
Book, website, podcast
Good fit for
Parents who want options matched to their own crying tolerance, explained without jargon.

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